High School Ministry Monthly Update

May 2026

May has been all about relationships for our high school group as we’ve been working through our “Relationships 101” series—because let’s be honest, relationships can feel a little less like “101” and a lot more like advanced calculus sometimes. We’ve been talking about everything from friendships to dating to how our relationship with God shapes it all, and one thing has stood out: we weren’t meant to do life alone. God designed the church to be a real community—as Pastor Rich would say, “Church is not an event we attend, it’s a family to which we belong.” It’s not just a place you show up, but a place where you’re known, encouraged, challenged, and occasionally reminded (lovingly) that replying “k” is not a full conversation. With Mother’s Day here, we’ve also been reminded to appreciate the relationships that have shaped us most—especially moms, who somehow manage to be our biggest supporters, best counselors, and part- time detectives all at once. This month has been a great reminder that healthy relationships don’t just happen—they’re built with intention, humility, and a whole lot of grace.

Blessings,

Joe Newton | Pastor of High School | Hessel Church | joe@hessel.org

Resource of the Month

The cover of the book 'Shepherding a Child's Heart' by Tedd Tripp, featuring an adult's hand holding a child's hand over a green grassy background.

Shepherding a Child's Heart

Written for parents with children of any age, this insightful book provides perspectives and procedures for shepherding your child's heart into the paths of life. Shepherding a Child's Heart gives fresh biblical approaches to child rearing.

Wednesday Night Lessons

May 6 | Boundaries Matter | Proverbs 4:23

Healthy relationships don’t happen by accident—they are protected by clear, God-honoring boundaries. Boundaries aren’t about restriction; they’re about protection.

May 13 | Love That Lasts | 1 Corinthians 13:4-7

Real love isn’t built on feelings—it’s built on commitment, sacrifice, and a foundation in God. If you want a love that lasts, it has to look like the love of Christ.

May 20 | Under My Roof | Ephesians 6:1-3

How you respond to your parents shapes your character more than you realize.

May 27 | First Things First | Deuteronomy 6:5

Your relationship with God sets the direction for every other relationship

Leadership